tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282677050879617208.post6338180472743462565..comments2019-09-20T02:08:02.181-07:00Comments on Some Are Made: Healthy Relationships.Kylahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01793288607844743336noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282677050879617208.post-11618884675878414222013-05-29T21:33:32.451-07:002013-05-29T21:33:32.451-07:00They do shape us. But we aren't cast in the fi...They do shape us. But we aren't cast in the fire yet, so we can mold ourselves into something else, if we like. It's harder to work with something that's already been shaped into something else than it is with fresh clay, but you can still do it.<br /><br />I hope your home life gets better and/or you do get out. I wish you all the luck in the world!Kylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01793288607844743336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282677050879617208.post-86479503268697443882013-05-29T21:31:28.505-07:002013-05-29T21:31:28.505-07:00My parents are complicated. They love me more than...My parents are complicated. They love me more than anything in the world, and I know that is genuine. They are also very destructive and abusive, and I know that that is crazy. But I love them, too, so it becomes a big mess.<br /><br />My mom and I have an extra complicated relationship. We've been close friends and helpmates most of my life. However, when she loses her mind, I'm the one that bears the brunt of that. And she can't handle any kind of criticism, so you just have to put up with it and move on.<br /><br />I was also kidnapped and molested as a small child (2-3 years old), so I can see why she wants to keep me dependent on her and "safe" from the world. But I have to grow out of the scared little girl sometime.<br /><br />Thanks for the comment and the very kind comment, Mark. I appreciate it!Kylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01793288607844743336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282677050879617208.post-54312391218086440782013-05-24T10:10:47.718-07:002013-05-24T10:10:47.718-07:00I understand why you feel like your parents have h...I understand why you feel like your parents have had a toxic influence on your life Kyla because I have had a tumultuous relationship with my father and it's hurtful because your parents are supposed to be what moulds us into what we are to an extent. Hopefully you find a way to fix things, I've been blogging about something similar and the only option I seem to have right now is to move out.Outcasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03400755239612162157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282677050879617208.post-68415136646385969022013-05-24T01:54:33.204-07:002013-05-24T01:54:33.204-07:00I can see where your parents are coming from and i...I can see where your parents are coming from and it's good that you can too. That way you can help get across better where you're coming from, and help them see that you aren't that scared little girl that needs protecting from everything anymore. Parents have this annoying thing where they always think they're right. The problem with this is they usually actually are, and have a hard time seeing when they aren't. Markhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12118816573712396453noreply@blogger.com