tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282677050879617208.post4549268699544556704..comments2019-09-20T02:08:02.181-07:00Comments on Some Are Made: A Cold Kind of AngerKylahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01793288607844743336noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282677050879617208.post-79309448762913718752013-05-31T12:29:40.094-07:002013-05-31T12:29:40.094-07:00Kyla don't you dare beat yourself up for anyth...Kyla don't you dare beat yourself up for anything that happened in regards to this guy! You went through a terrible experience and he's the sick one, it doesn't make you a bad person, it makes you a good person who had something terrible happen to her. <br /><br />I have to admit that when I read that comment myself I did see a cynical and slightly wry side to you that I had no idea existed. I'm the same, sometimes I stray and gravitate towards evil or scheming. Sometimes, especially when I'm wronged I'll come up with manipulative and it's something that I wrestle with in myself. I think that you're the same Kyla and that's what stops you from being evil, you realise right and wrong and at the core you're a wonderful and good person, at least that's what I see. Your actions in regards to your ordeal are perfectly acceptable, to be honest after what you've been through you're justified to react however you want to to what happened. Outcasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03400755239612162157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282677050879617208.post-8405752481463684542013-05-31T07:20:33.079-07:002013-05-31T07:20:33.079-07:00It sounds more what you are describing is a self-d...It sounds more what you are describing is a self-defense mechanism rather than you having an evil side. Whenever I let my anger get the best of me, I always regret it. It usually doesn't do any good to blow your top anyway. But I can state that for every situation, because there are definitely times when the burst of energy you get from anger may save you. Revenge is usually never a good impulse though. Usually, the Universe or God or whatever it is, has a way of punishing bad people, so being consumed with revenge is only wasting energy that could be put to better use. At least that's what Zoroasterisk Fungfucius told me.Jimmy Fungushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11953474867719568319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282677050879617208.post-81502589387566367202013-05-31T02:24:38.018-07:002013-05-31T02:24:38.018-07:00I think most people have that side of themselves. ...I think most people have that side of themselves. Perhaps it has been amplified lately because of your recent experiences.Adam Lloydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15404990952302454770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282677050879617208.post-59904504617531306622013-05-31T01:44:51.036-07:002013-05-31T01:44:51.036-07:00Well you do have to accept that part of you. For t...Well you do have to accept that part of you. For the most part it's the survival instinct. When it comes down to it a lot of us would rather survive ourselves than go through some kind of pain so that someone else might not have to. From the sounds of it you would have had to allow yourself to be raped in a way more disastrous than you were, and no one should have to put themselves through that. I have that cold streak myself and it's actually one of those things people rarely believe about me.<br /><br />But in the end it is a part of you and if you don't accept it, then there's nothing ahead for you but self loathing and you're already there in a way.Markhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12118816573712396453noreply@blogger.com